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Cindy Hardy's avatar

Another childless 60something here. Sharing the hard laugh with you, and the sorrow, and especially the message to youth: this is not your failing.

The Vertical Dispatch's avatar

Received, sister, and returned — the hard laugh and the sorrow both. I read Ecclesiastes at my mentor's memorial — "in much wisdom is much grief; and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow" (1:18) — and I've carried it since, because it was true of him and it's true of us: the ones who saw clearly carried the most. More of us in this lounge than anyone counts, and the ones gone ahead carried it too. We recognize each other; that's the gift. And to the young, always: this was never your failing — only knowledge arriving early, and the sorrow that rides with it. 🕯️

Dave Thaler's avatar

Ain't that the truth, brother.